Men: If you want sex, You want a wife

A man who findeth a wife findeth a good thing says Proverbs 18. To be exact,

Proverbs 18:22
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.”

When you want a woman to be your good thing, you want a wife.

When you expect a single woman to:
– Obey or defer to you
– Cater to you
– Talk about sex with you
– Have sex with you and engage in other sexual activities
– Live with you
– Be loyal to you
– Have children with you
– Do favors for your family
– Make her responsible for your biological children, who aren’t her biological children, in some way

YOU WANT A WIFE!
YOU WANT A WIFE!
YOU WANT A WIFE!

You want a wife when you want a single woman to fulfill those expectations.

A single woman doesn’t have to listen to you or even acknowledge your presence. A single woman:
– Has the right to say NO to sex!
– Has the right to say NO to whatever!
– Doesn’t have to bow down to you!
– Doesn’t have to bow down to your friends and family!
– Doesn’t have to cook nor clean for you!

MEN WHEN YOU EXPECT SEX FROM A SINGLE WOMAN WHO ISN’T YOUR WIFE, YOU ARE TAKING ON THE ROLE OF A HUSBAND. A HUSBAND IS A LOYAL, LOVER, PROVIDER AND PROTECTOR. DON’T BE UPSET WHEN YOU ARE EXPECTED TO BE A PROVIDER. A MAN SHOULD LOVE HIS WIFE AS CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH.

Ephesians 5:22-28 says:
22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Ladies, Don’t Be Easy: Men like a Challenge

Ladies, Don’t Be Easy: Men like a Challenge

By nature, men like to pursue when dating. If you’re making it easy too catch you, then the pursuit is not challenging. This makes dating less interesting. It is also an indicator that a society has reached decadence that will lead lead to its self-destructuon. Such hedonism is a major characteristic of a society that has reached a point of self-righteousness, arrogant, pretentiousness, high-minded selfishness and self worship. People seek pleasure in that which they shouldn’t because they have such gluttonous behavior that they aren’t satisfied by the usual.

Men like to pursue a challenge. When they aren’t presented a challenge, they become gluttonous about things less challenging things until they lose interest in them. Men like a challenge and gender won’t matter. So, your feminine wiles won’t get you far with a man if you’re easy. GOD addresses this in Romans 1:21 – 32.

Romans 1:21 – 32

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Romans-Chapter-1/

21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.

22Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,

23And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.

24Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:

25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,

31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:

32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

Ladies, Don’t Be Easy: Men like a Challenge

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Right or Righteous?

Right or Righteous?

In our interaction with other people, we must be wise. As believers in GOD, we must determine if we want to be right or righteous. The need to be right may lead us to be obnoxious, inconsiderate, tactless, and egostical. We won’t consider the consequences of that which we are saying and its impact upon those to whom we speaking nor we will care about the way in which we say these things to them because our desire to be right gives us a feeling superiority that we feel supercedes showing compassion. Feeling that we have right on our side may cause us to be prideful and arrogant when speaking in earnest to others.

Righteousness requires wisdom, tact, compassion, discernment, understanding, and discretion. You must be considerate of the other person’s feelings. Most of all, righteousness is not driven by the need to be right to satisfy one’s own ego. Our need to be right may break many spirits. Our need to be right may lead us to interfere in a direction in which GOD wants someone to walk.

Being righteous means to think before we speak. First, we need to discern the person’s spiritual, emotional, and mental health before to determine if, how, and when we should tell a person something that we think is right and would be helpful to their lives. We also need to discern our own motives for wanting tell that person that which is right. Are you trying to use telling that which is right to belittle them, make them submit to your own will or otherwise manipulate them for your own personal gain? Are you really trying to be helpful or are you just sewing discord?

Proverbs 15:1,23
1 A soft answer turneth awlay wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

23 A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!

Proverbs 16:20-21,24, 27-28, 28-29
20 He that handleth a matter wisely shall find good: and whoso trusteth in the LORD, happy is he.

21 The wise in heart shall be called prudent: and the sweetness of the lips increaseth learning.

24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.

27 An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire.

28 A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.

29 A violent man enticeth his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good.

30 He shutteth his eyes to devise froward things: moving his lips he bringeth evil to pass

Proverbs 18:21
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Proverbs 17:27-28
27 He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.

28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

Right or Righteous?

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Extremist Feminism Invites Non-Committal Behavior in Men

Extremist Feminism Invites Non-Committal Behavior in Men

Don’t let men who don’t want to commit waste your time. You, Lady, are sophisticated, smart, and strong. Don’t let anyone take advantage of you by manipulating those aspects of your character.

Cheerleaders for the Independent Woman OR Lazy Slug?

Some men’s dominant nature is that of childish slug. He really doesn’t want to be responsible for anything serious.

He wastes resources that he didn’t provide.
He throws away good opportunity.
He focuses on the frivolous and trivial – foolish and silly things of life – as if they are most important.
He sets back any progress that you have made as a couple.
He whines like a baby when he doesn’t get his way.
He is very duplicitous – very two-faced.
Makes outlandish ultimatums that would ruin the relationship.
Tries to force you to always make him your first priority.
He cares nothing about your children – He takes from them, neglects them, and encourages you to do the same.
He cares nothing about any of his own children, especially those who aren’t living with him.[1 Timothy 5:8,“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”]
He encourages you to murder your unborn child for his convenience.[1 Timothy 5:8,“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”]
He tries to isolate you from your family friends whom he knows will tell you to ditch him and his foolishness.
He tells your personal business to his family and friends.
He doesn’t accept responsibility for any problems that he caused – he always makes it everyone. else’s fault – especially yours.
He speaks negatively against you behind your back.
He is weak-minded and easily influenced by the wrong things and people.
He constantly calculates and Qschemes against you instead of works with you.
He doesn’t try to step up or give any constructive input until after you have taken care of everything. Then, he steps up to undermine and ruin things or take it over like he contributed anything.

Put Your Down Foot and Take a Load Off

If you are a feminist and you want to be in a committed relationship, step back and make your man take the lead at all appropriate times. Don’t let him off the hook of responsibility for anything that he is supposed to do. If you do that, he won’t step up at all. You’ll become his woman of convenience who he knows will be there when he needs coddling and intimacy. When he nearly ruins things due to his own selfishness and the arrogance of his stupidity, he is going come to you and want you to fix it. Don’t let these guys who want a convenience and not a commitment waste your time.

Extremist Feminism Invites Non-Committal Behavior in Men

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Polyamory, Adultery, and Fornication is not Okay – Be not Convinced Otherwise

https://followerofthewayforever.wordpress.com/2019/04/03/polyamory-adultery-and-fornication-is-not-okay-be-not-convinced-otherwise

Marriage is meant to be between one man and one woman. Don’t let anyone convince you that it is not a sin to have sex before marriage, cohabitate, have an open marriage, have multiple spouses at one time, or cheat on your spouse. Do not think that purposely treating your spouse in a way to make them want to leave you or mistreat you in any other way so that you can justify divorcing them is not a sin. In Matthew 19:3-12, Jesus says:

Matthew 19:3-12

3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.

12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

About marriage, in I Corinthians 7:1-17, Paul says:

I Corinthians 7:1-17

2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.

9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.

Polyamory, Adultery, and Fornication is not Okay – Be not Convinced Otherwise

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Feminism, Cads, and Giggalos

Feminism, Cads, and Giggalos
https://followerofthewayforever.wordpress.com/2019/03/20/feminism-cads-and-giggalos

Feminists be careful not to get played by your ideology. Your strength may attract strong, intelligent men, however it also attracts no-good conniving, emotionally manipulative dudes who only want you for sex, money, or anything else that he needs except you. Please don’t let these type of dudes make a fool of you. They will even deceive you into thinking that you are controlling the relationship and them. They will let you think that you are the dominant one. However, they are controlling you because you are relieving them of a lot of responsibility, which is what they want you to do. When you fuss about them not stepping up, they won’t let it hurt their feelings, they will go along and tune you out as long as you keep doing what they want you to do. Paul, inspired by GOD, said it best in 2 Timothy 3:9:

2 Timothy 3:9

2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
8 Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.
9 But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as theirs also was.

Ladies don’t let self-righteousness and pride blind you to the truth when you are in a relationship.

Feminism, Cads, and Giggalos

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